Flasher

Monday, March 13, 2006

Love

If you're afraid to love a person because of friendship, you have two
choices: either tell what you feel and let the love take place or hide the
feeling under a friendship full of pretensions.

It's hard for two people to love each other when they live in two different
worlds but when these two worlds collide and become one, that's what you
call magic! Love can never be so beautiful without friendship. One leads to
another and the process is irreversible. The best of lovers is the greatest
of friends! I like you because you're my friend, and because you are my
friend I care, and because I care, I love you.


I don't love you because you are my friend, I love you because I do.
Sometimes I've asked myself, what would make me happy? To think that I have
everything else, I get what I want. Then I realized it was YOU, too bad
'cause it's you I can't have. I can't choose who I'm gonna love, but I also
can't just love who chooses to love me. And you can't blame me in choosing
to love you as much as I can't blame you for not learning to love me.


I'm sorry if you can't love me the way you loved the one before me, so I'll
let you go find him/her and hope someday you'll see that the one true love
you're looking for was the one who set you free.


"How can I say goodbye to someone I never had? Why do tears fall for
someone who was never mine? Why is that I miss someone I was never with and
I ask why I love someone who's love was never mine? "Isn't it funny we're
trying to catch the attention of the one we think we love; we hardly notice
the one we're really looking for was just there. You don't notice them
'till they are in the arms of someone else.


Food for thought, think of this: Have you really cared for someone more
than you expected? Have you ever tried to love him/her despite of all the
pain? Will you keep on loving him/her as he/she whispers someone else's
name? Will you? It's better to lose your pride with someone you love rather
than lose that someone you love with your useless pride.


When you love someone, don't expect that person to love you back the same
amount. One of you will be ahead, the other behind. It's either you catch
up or the other waits. When you love, you must not accept anything in
return, for if you do, you're not loving but Investing. If you love, you
must prepare to accept pain, for if you expect happiness, you're not loving
but using. True love hears what is not spoken, and understands what is not
explained, for love doesn't work in the mouth, nor the mind, but in the
heart...


Love is like standing on wet cement, the longer you stay the harder it is
to leave and you can never go without leaving your prints behind. Don't
love a person like a flower, because a flower dies in season. Love them
like a river because a riverflows forever.


Love doesn't have to have a happy ending, 'cause love doesn't have to end
at all. Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you
aches and pains, but if you don't follow your heart, in the end you will
cry even more for not giving love a chance.


Love may leave your heart like shattered glass, but keep in mind that
there's someone who'll be willing to endure the pain of picking up the
pieces so you could be whole again.

1 Comments:

  • At 4:42 PM, Blogger Cheng Sim said…

    oh gosh. that was SO deep. i like it when you say that "love doesn't have to have a happy ending because love never has its end". totally agree. i like your entry.

     

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